Her name is Philippa, (Pippa for short), and yes, she is short, five feet tall and yes, she was named by her mother in memory of her father, Phillip, known to his contemporaries as Phillip the Great. The “Great” was earned during his years at Dupont where he was a legendary, some say tyrannical, executive. When He married her mother, she was 26 and he was 54. He died while she was pregnant, so Philippa it was.
In a loosely formed chain of events, Philippa went into business too- only she went through, what in her father’s day was considered the back door. At forty, Philippa founded a healthcare business, providing staffing and human resources services to several large hospitals in her town. At least, that’s what the business looks like today. When she started out, she was everything: the provider and the person provided; in other words, her business was a one woman consulting gig that grew to something quite wonderful.
Today she manages two hundred healthcare professionals, and thirty HR and IT and Administrative Consultants. She is financially conservative, self-funded (with a line of credit), and owns one hundred percent of the business. Her husband, Howard, is the CFO and they have three children, two of whom are well launched, and the youngest was just accepted at Dartmouth. Philippa has not had a vacation for six years. The demand to grow the business has been relentless, and the future is bright, blindingly bright. While the nest is emptying, she and Howard (aka sweetie) are not feeling as sweet towards each other as they did in the past. These circumstances are what sent her out to find a community, some credible conversation about being a CEO.
At first she looked for a CEO women’s group, but she couldn’t find one. She settled on a coed CEO support group who met monthly for a day. Their charter was to discuss issues particular to being a CEO, expose members to current thinking, and explore ideas about running businesses. At her first meeting, she felt a wave of relief being in the same room with peers who were grappling with many of the same issues she was grappling with. That was five years ago. Her group became a safe harbor, a great place to air out ideas, hair-brained or otherwise. What pleased her even more was how much she learned simply from listening, CEOs doing the same thing, throwing their ideas out for consideration, observing, and contributing. She felt herself growing by leaps and bounds.
We join Phillipa at a meeting. It is 7:30 AM. The group is seated talking, like a three generational family gathered around a giant ornately carved, highly polished, wooden table made centuries ago, probably built for state visits or country house dining. Lit by muted yellow light from a chandelier, they sit, three women, and nine men, dressed across the spectrum of business garb, jeans to Armani, Phillipa and the other women preferring tailored suits and Etro scarves.
The scene plays out like the first moments of a family reunion: some joy, energy sparked by reconnecting, a bit of banter, and for a few, nervousness. The meeting is called to order by Jack, a professional facilitator who blends them, keeps them going, and on purpose. They begin with their monthly ritual Check-In, an update from each about themselves and their businesses. The Check-In often morphs into dialogues, extended conversations, taking the better part of the morning and is an important part of their monthly time together.
In many ways, Philippa’s CEO group is her second family. They come together every month for a whole day. Most have been together for five or more years and know a lot about each other. Being opinionated people by nature, they hold strong opinions about each other. The strongly held opinion about Pippa (as she is called by her siblings) is that she works too hard, that she is going to burn out some day but she won’ t even know she is burning out because she’ll be too busy to notice. That’s her MO in the group. She is well liked, even loved. The group is in awe of her success and her effort, but she just can’t seem to take her foot off of the accelerator. Her CEO siblings have said this and more in a dozen different ways, how concerned they are, though, most freely admit, she shows no sigh of cracking so far. At this, heads shake, smiles emerge, and another month passes.
We join Check-In as Harvey, a 350 pound asthmatic finishes his update. He is having trouble breathing today but he is animated. It seems he is being booted upstairs to the Board of directors by the same people he so carefully chose to serve on the board. He is talking about betrayal and inevitability. Turning to his right, wiping sweat from his brow with a white starched napkin, he says, “well Pippa over to you because that’s my story and I’m sticking to it.” Laugher.
“Thank you Harvey. Well, I’d like to start with an announcement.” Pausing to gather her thoughts, she continues. “After our last meeting, you broke through – Pippa you work too hard, Pippa you need a vacation. I heard you. I left our meeting, went home, poured a large glass of wine and told my sweetie we’re taking a three-week vacation. So off we go, departing next Monday.” Loud applause, smiles, cheering too, her siblings are pleased.
“No wait, there’s more … I bought first class to Maui, and prepaid a nonrefundable three-week package at the Four Seasons. We’re locked in, nothing but sun, sleep, good food, trashy novels, swimming, and being together.” More cheering and applause. Beaming now, Pippa scans the table when Tom, a thirty something pre-revenue CEO pushes his hand through long hair and says, “yeah but will you be able to read your BlackBerry on the beach?” The family erupts into laughter. Pippa blushes and says; “I h-a-v-e thought about that, yes!” More laughter. “In fact, Tom, you’ll like this, I’ve calculated that in a typical three-week period I receive between 1,500 to 2,000 bloody emails.” Someone off to her left groans. “But you see I have a plan. First of all, I’m not going to read business email while I’m in Hawaii. I’m not going to even open the company email account for three weeks.”
Faces darken, brows knit, eyes avert, heads shake imperceptibly. In silence, her family sits stunned. She continues: “I’ve told everyone, customers and team members alike, that I’ll be gone and out of email range, that I’ll not be responding to emails no matter what. I’ve told each client, customer, support agent, administrator, everybody: I’ll be gone; contact this person or that person.”
Harvey, mopped his brow again, leans forward as if speaking to the center of the table and rasps, “Are you sure about this Pippa, is this the responsible thing for you to do, to go from no vacation in five years to jumping ship for three weeks with no contact?”
“Good question, Harvey. Look, I employ plenty of people who can keep the business rolling for three weeks, thanks to you all, thanks to your poking at me, Pippa get a team, Pippa hire high, Pippa get ahead of the curve. I’ve listened to you all and I have a good team, I do! And if it turns out my team isn’t up to it, well, this is a good time to find out.”
Tom laughed and said; “Yeah, but it’ll take you three weeks to read three weeks of email when you get back, you know…you’ll never catch up!” Heads nodded, agreeing, looking at her, waiting for her response. A tennis-like match had broken out: Pippa, sibs, Pippa, sibs, Pippa, sibs, and now the sibs were waiting for her return.
“Yes Tom you’re right! I’d never get through all those emails, and do my real job too. But I’ve been thinking about this. It’s not just the vacation – there’s something wrong with email, or at least email as we use it to communicate. I’ve been looking more critically at my email, and how it adds to my workload. Tom, you’ve nailed it, I can’t read two thousand old emails and do my job too. So I’ve decided to do my job. All of my email will be read and vetted by others, and sent to the appropriate person. Others can handle the work load if I actually let them do it.
One of the things I’ve learned from this group is that you get what you expect from your people. If you expect mediocrity, or indecisiveness, you get it. I plead guilty. I’ve decided I expect my people to be managers, leaders, good customer relations people and we’ll see how they do.
So that’s the big news, but there’s a footnote, one I would’ve never reached without your poking and prodding. After the dust settles, after we have some data from this experience, we as a company are going to take a long hard look at how we communicate in general, and eventually, how, as a business, we can better manage email.”
There was a long too silent pause. The floor squeaked as her sibs shifted in their seats. “Well,” Pippa said, “come on what do you think? You might as well tell me. I’m going to do this no matter what. Sorry that I’ll miss our next meeting but I’ll be on the beach, so it’ll be two months before I see you again. Give me your best shot, I’m good for it!” Pippa smiled confidently.
Harvey put his napkin on the table, and ever so slowly, began to clap, looking at his sibs as he did, and like small children, following the lead of a teacher, hesitantly one by one, they all joined in to full applause.
The sibs were saying we don’t know what’s going to happen but there is more good here than bad. They were saying please do check in with us so we can learn from your experience, because we have email problems of our own, and we have communication problems of our own, and many of us have an over-controlling over-working problem too. The sibs were saying: we’re behind you Pippa!
And you, what are your thoughts? Are you a little disbelieving or are you excited for Pippa – are you clapping too? However you react to Pippa’s announcement, consider your own experience. First of all, we all know that it’s not much of a vacation if you’re reading business email half the time. Pippa has taken the responsible step of taking a real vacation away from work for three weeks. She has set up contingency plans and has told her team what she expects. She’s also decided not to sentence herself to the purgatory of digging out from hundreds of emails (most of which aren’t really worth reading in the first place). This means Pippa will return to work with a good tan, rested, and better able to do her job. She’ll find out what she needs to find out by talking to her team and others. And it won’t take her long to get up to speed.
Oh yes, and the people whose job it will be to cover for her while she is gone? Well, they’ll be better for the experience, a potential growth spurt, exposing her people to real challenges.
Then there is the greater issue: email. This is a topic worthy of a book, not just a blog. The advent of email as a communication device has gone from a time-saving convenience and cleaver technology to a tidal wave of unintended consequences in overflowing in-boxes and gigabyte message storage. But because we all have email, and because email is the main method of “sending stuff” and because it’s so handy, we’re all being beaten to death by it. So yes, as for email, our ever courageous Pippa will wrestle with that too.
Taking the data from this experience, she’ll work with her team to enhance the useful attributes of email and to dampen the unintended consequences. It will be a carefully tailored solution, one that makes sense for Pippa and her organization.
Epilogue:
Over the recent holidays, several companies (including Volkswagen) announced email policies to reduce the “crush of email”, email access during the winter holidays, email on weekends, and email outside of office hours.
We’ve thoughtlessly bought into the “be connected 24-7” idea, the “if you work longer you will get more done” idea, the “more data is better communication” idea. Yet there is considerable evidence to demonstrate that these things aren’t true – for human beings …even highly motivated human beings. It’s the human part that gets us. It’s also the human part that’s what true leadership is about… being a leading human, like Pippa.
Have a look at this Wired Magazine story (a follow up) that may have caught Pippa’s eye. I know it caught mine.
Aloha




